Monday, September 1, 2014
Goddammit I am just so sick of being used for other people. I’m not here to just listen to you. If you take the time to listen to what I have to say then I will listen to what you have to say as well but just replying with an “oh?” “haha” or “yeah” is not listening, it is being obviously painfully bored and those responses do not deserve my undying attention when it comes to what the fuck you want to say even if the world is fucking ending and zombies are upon us, okay?
You know what, I can’t get over what I was saying in those tags. So let me make myself explicitly clear:
If we have talked for at least a year in a certain way and you decide that you don’t want to anymore, that you want to talk to me less, and that you have found something more interesting to put all of your time into instead of bothering to talk to me and only doing so when you want or need to talk about something so you can feel better and basically just talk about yourself…
Then consider the friendship over, stop fucking talking to me, and just leave. You’re free to pursue your new friendships just stop fucking tugging me along like I’m a fucking toy.
Hey stuff like this is actually really like. Borderline manipulative and it’s one thing to just have thoughts like “oh everyone gets tired of me and leaves and I wish they didn’t” but if you say things like this to friends especially if you’re in really serious relationships where one of you is being supported by the other (even if it’s mutual) that can be really manipulative and make people feel obligated to be your friend and not leave you and make promises they don’t want to and can’t keep and can be really really unhealthy for both of you
Like I understand feeling sad when friendships end but emotionally manipulating people into relationships is REALLY not cool even if you don’t realize you’re doing it, and it’s not just this post, there’s this whole mentality of like, co-dependent relationships are the MOST MEANINGFUL relationships and you have to be close FOREVER or it’s not real or whatever and that’s really unhealthy and toxic like please don’t
Everyone has the right to end friendships and leave relationships whether it’s a conscious decision or happens naturally over time. Relationships end. Let it happen, get over it. Please don’t depend on people because they are also people like you who need to have the autonomy to get out of bad situations or on a less serious level just do whatever the fuck they want with their lives
Your friends might make you feel special and less alone but they don’t EXIST SOLELY FOR THAT PURPOSE and they don’t owe it to you to stick with you forever, especially if you try to make them feel like they do
Jack Barakat does the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge [x]
HEY NERDLORDS. YA WANT HOARNS? YA GOT HOARNS.
Basically a giveaway because I’M HYPED AS SHIT BECASE 100 WHOLE FOLLOWERS.
1 pair of horns!
(I know that’s not very exciting-sounding, but I don’t expect this to go far so I’ll just give away 1 pair, headband and magical screws included. If you hadn’t guessed from my pictures up there, you can hide the headband under a wig due to the magic screws. *gasp*)
- Rebagles and likes count!
- Don’t have to follow me, but I’ll love you forever and I reblog a lot of gay lady fanart?
- The winner should be random, I’m not sure which generator to use yet, but I’ll work on that.
I also take comissions, so if you don’t win but would like to do an art trade or bake me cookies or something message me! :D
edit: I also do propwork, and if this gets like a ton of notes I’ll consider making a first prize winner or something. Good luck everybody! :3
Also the end date is September 30th! Good Luck! AGAIN!
Rebagling this to give a decisive answer to the multi-prize thing: IF this whole shebang reaches 500 notes then I’ll split this three ways:
1st prize: 3 pairs of horns of your choice OR a full prop.
2nd prize: 2 pairs of horns or a mid to small sized prop.
3rd prize: 1 pair of horns or a small prop/accessory.
make me choose meme » cute mavin moments or funny mavin moments; asked by anon
"So I was like, you know, I’ll buy the diamond and the creeper and it will be really stupid and, like, Gavin and I—when we team up—we’ll be called Team Nice Dynamite and that would be our thing.”
I feel like I work in the underground to help save the world from a corrupt government and that’s exactly how I want to feel everyday.
Think I can wear these goggles all the time?